Aug 17, 2003 16:39
20 yrs ago
English term
look for the centre
Non-PRO
English
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We were strictly brought up. And when you are kept too tight, then you spring an awful long way when you go.
We have all sprung out and now we are coiling back aghain. In fact, you are looking for the centre again as you get older and you get your own children.
We have all sprung out and now we are coiling back aghain. In fact, you are looking for the centre again as you get older and you get your own children.
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4 mins
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looking back for your roots - from where you came from
Looks like they feel they got lost when, with age, they went so far away from their very tight and contained childhood. Now they're turning back to that, specially when they see thay need to bring up their own children. That's why they're looking for their own roots.
Rb
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Note added at 2003-08-17 16:45:56 (GMT)
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The centre here meaning the \"stable\", \"reference\" point of their own education, from which they had all run away.
Bye bye!
Rb
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Note added at 2003-08-17 16:45:56 (GMT)
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The centre here meaning the \"stable\", \"reference\" point of their own education, from which they had all run away.
Bye bye!
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+3
5 mins
look for the centre
It means to look to your roots, your ground base, your foundation. Many people settle down and return to the way they were raised when they have their own children. When people have children, they want to give them the values and upbringing that they had, (generally speaking, not everyone of course). Parents want to give their children a sense of belonging to somehing, a founding family.
Peer comment(s):
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Ruben Berrozpe (X)
: I sure write terrible English on a Sunday evening!! This is what I meant of course. Cheers Gayle
1 min
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Luis Orueta
: almost same as above; nicely put
20 mins
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agree |
Jirina Nevosadova
2 hrs
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6 mins
How you were brought up
In this picture. "you spring an awful long way" is with respect to this centre.
6 mins
look for one's true self
In this context, I understand is as looking for one's true self, as opposed to the old reactions to parental demands which had more to do with rebellion against external pressures.
Since they mention children, in this case it also has an element of looking for a home, family.
Since they mention children, in this case it also has an element of looking for a home, family.
12 hrs
See explanation
The centre is the middle ground between how you were brought up and the place you 'sprang' to.
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Upbringing Centre Place
you sprang
to
You try to get some balance in your life. When you have children of your own, you have often outgrown the need to rebel against your parents and other authorities, and this is why you would be looking for the centre.
(I know you've already graded, just wanted to make my point) :o)
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Upbringing Centre Place
you sprang
to
You try to get some balance in your life. When you have children of your own, you have often outgrown the need to rebel against your parents and other authorities, and this is why you would be looking for the centre.
(I know you've already graded, just wanted to make my point) :o)
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