Glossary entry

English term or phrase:

somebody

English answer:

a psychologist, psychotherapist or similar professional therapist

Added to glossary by Yvonne Gallagher
Feb 7, 2015 19:42
9 yrs ago
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English term

somebody

English Other General / Conversation / Greetings / Letters
Hello everyone,

A husband and a wife are at a TV show.

Presenter: Did you seek out counseling for help?

Wife: Yes, yes. From about Los Angeles onwards I sort of, I mean the stresses were so great with our eldest son that it's almost to me like being hit by a bus. You've got every bone in your body broken and that you need permanent physiotherapy for the rest of your life and I look on therapy as physiotherapy.

Presenter: It's maintenance for your relationship.

Wife: It's absolute maintenance. And so wherever we go I've sought out ***somebody*** because I just find a lot of what happens in with us is that I get what I develop, what I call niggles. I get niggles of resentment and then they start to nag, so it's a naggle and then he comes home from a trip and it's a noggle by this time and I'm not nice.

Does "somebody" implies a physiotherapist? Or does it mean she sought out any person to take it out on?

Thank you.
Change log

Feb 9, 2015 15:43: Yvonne Gallagher Created KOG entry

Feb 9, 2015 15:44: Yvonne Gallagher changed "Edited KOG entry" from "<a href="/profile/1300525">Yvonne Gallagher's</a> old entry - "somebody"" to ""a psychologist, psychotherapist or similar professioanal therapist""

Discussion

Jennifer Levey Feb 7, 2015:
@klp Semantically, "somebody" in your ST is the singular equivalent of "everyone" in your opening phrase: "Hello everyone".

Responses

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8 mins
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a psychiatrist

she is just saying it's LIKE she has every bone broken but she is really looking for counselling for her problems

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Note added at 12 mins (2015-02-07 19:54:46 GMT)
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so, she is not going to look for a physiotherapist in other words. Her "niggles" are really anxieties and stress so she needs help. Yes, she says

"I look on therapy as physiotherapy"


which is a little confusing but she's explaining that her stress level is LIKE she has been "hit by a bus"

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Note added at 14 mins (2015-02-07 19:57:40 GMT)
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Just to be clear

she LOOKS FOR a PSYCHIATRIST "wherever we go"

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Note added at 3 hrs (2015-02-07 22:53:58 GMT)
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yes, Robin is right. I should have said
psychologist.

It's a "shrink" (slang) that she needs.

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Note added at 3 hrs (2015-02-07 23:03:32 GMT)
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I read "therapy" as being counselling for her stress as she seeks it out on her own it seems. She doesn't say she and her husband go together which would be required in marriage therapy/counselling. (Unless there's something later in interview that indicates this?)


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Note added at 19 hrs (2015-02-08 15:24:17 GMT)
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I really don't know where people are getting "marriage counselling" as she explains the problems are caused by her "eldest son". I truly believe an "understanding friend" is not going to be enough. The woman is getting professional help imho and that is ongoing treatmentwhich is maintaining her in a functioning state.
"niggles" to "naggles" to "noggles" and "I'm not nice" are signs of her rising stress/anxiety levels so that's why she needs to get professional treatment. The fact she seeks out this treatment "everywhere we go" also points to the need for professional help. Hardly likely to have an understanding friend or "helper" everywhere! And "helper" is far too vague.

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Note added at 1 day19 hrs (2015-02-09 15:42:02 GMT) Post-grading
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glad to have helped
Note from asker:
Thank you, Gallagy. My initial thought was that she has pain/ache in her body because of her anxieties and that's why she says, "I look on therapy as physiotherapy"
Peer comment(s):

neutral Jennifer Levey : Methinks you're confusing psychology (= counselling to help someone cope with stress etc.) and psychiatry (=use of drugs to control behaviour).
2 hrs
yes, I do actually know the difference but goofed up:-( it's a shrink of course.
agree Charles Davis : OK, probably a counsellor rather than a psychiatrist, but the explanation is right, and important to make it clear that it's not a psythiotherapist (she's not literally suffering from multiple fractures).
3 hrs
well, Thanks. Well, she seems to be in a bad way so think it's professional psychotherapist of some sort
agree AllegroTrans : or any skilled helper, it is not specific// true, but the source text is equally vague..."somebody" might include an understanding friend
5 hrs
Thanks, but I think "skilled helper"is way too vague and it's some form of psychotherapist//"counselling"/"everywhere we go"/"permanent"/"maintenance" etc etc all point to professional psychotherapy of some description (and not marriage counselling either
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer. Comment: "Many thanks to everyone. Thank you, Gallagy."
+7
1 hr

counselor, therapist or psychotherapist

She seeks out a marriage counselor or therapist. It doesn't necessarily have to be a psychiatrist (although I agree with the rest of Gallagy' explanation).
Peer comment(s):

agree Victoria Britten
1 hr
agree Charles Davis
2 hrs
agree AllegroTrans : or any skilled helper, it is not specific
3 hrs
agree Sery Media (X) : A skilled professional in the area, but not specific. Especially since she mentions 'Maintenance'.
3 hrs
agree acetran
11 hrs
agree British Diana : Yes, it's counselling and/or therapy, done by a professional
11 hrs
neutral Yvonne Gallagher : psychotherapist yes, but not a "marriage counsellor" and "therapist " is too vague. What does "maintenance" mean to SeryMedia? Think is misunderstanding
12 hrs
agree Phong Le
1 day 13 hrs
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+1
2 hrs

someone, *any*one

She just needs a fellow human being to listen to her. 'somebody' doesn't have to be a health professional. A social worker will do; or whoever picks up the phone at Samaritans; any total stranger will do - provided that that person will listen (and, hopefully, empathise).

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Note added at 2 hrs (2015-02-07 22:40:59 GMT)
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Note added re Asker's doubt: "Or does it mean she sought out any person to take it out on?"

It's all about 'sharing' her concerns with 'someone who cares (and might be able to provide support)', not about finding a 'scapegoat', or someone to blame for her problems.
Peer comment(s):

neutral Yvonne Gallagher : no, don't agree with this. it's clear she needs counselling: "Did you seek out counseling for help?/ Wife: Yes, yes.
23 mins
agree Jean-Claude Gouin : Muchly!? At least Gallagy, Amel and Charles didn't disagree ...
33 mins
Thanks muchly.
neutral Arabic & More : I agree with Gallagy on this. "Someone" here is clearly a mental health professional.
49 mins
neutral Charles Davis : The context clearly militates against this reading, in my opinion.
1 hr
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