Glossary entry (derived from question below)
English term or phrase:
drop the rope of your struggle with reality
English answer:
stop fighting against reality (/imagining you will change the world)
Added to glossary by
Daryo
Dec 16, 2022 16:30
1 yr ago
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English term
drop the rope of your struggle
English
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Idioms / Maxims / Sayings
"Drop the rope of your struggle with reality, remind yourself that “it is what it is” and take a breath."
I heard a similar expression in an audio program that I was using for interpretation practice. I think I have an idea of the meaning, but I'd like to confirm it. I found this explanation:
"An argument or conflict is like a tug-of-war. To win, you have to pull, pull, pull. Someone wins and someone losses.
But what if we didn’t pull, pull, pull? What if we just dropped the rope? What if we chose not to battle?"
https://balancecoaching.com/drop-the-rope/
My questions:
1) How would you reword the term phrase?
2) Is "drop the rope" considered an idiom or a metaphor? Or maybe something else?
Thank you all.
I heard a similar expression in an audio program that I was using for interpretation practice. I think I have an idea of the meaning, but I'd like to confirm it. I found this explanation:
"An argument or conflict is like a tug-of-war. To win, you have to pull, pull, pull. Someone wins and someone losses.
But what if we didn’t pull, pull, pull? What if we just dropped the rope? What if we chose not to battle?"
https://balancecoaching.com/drop-the-rope/
My questions:
1) How would you reword the term phrase?
2) Is "drop the rope" considered an idiom or a metaphor? Or maybe something else?
Thank you all.
Change log
Dec 16, 2022 20:13: philgoddard changed "Field (write-in)" from "idiomatic dictionary proj" to "(none)"
Dec 21, 2022 00:35: Daryo changed "Edited KOG entry" from "<a href="/profile/2407412">Oliver Simões's</a> old entry - "drop the rope of your struggle"" to ""stop fighting against reality (/imagining you will change the world)""
Responses
11 hrs
English term (edited):
Drop the rope of your struggle with reality
Selected
stop fighting against reality (/imagining you will change the world)
"drop the rope" => quit the contest, stop fighting your opponent
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Note added at 11 hrs (2022-12-17 03:54:12 GMT)
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"Drop the rope of your struggle with reality, remind yourself that “it is what it is” and take a breath."
can only mean
stop fighting against reality (/imagining you will change the world) - accept that the world is as it is.
or
Don't keep fighting windmills Like Don Quixote, accept windmills will always win.
Nothing more - it says nothing about what could be the next step.
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Note added at 11 hrs (2022-12-17 04:07:12 GMT)
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in the next episode I could see few possible development for the story, "drop the rope" being used as argument for
- total passivity
- resorting to "if you can't beat them, join them"
- still fighting but only selected battles
- and many more, depending on your imagination and real-life experience
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Note added at 11 hrs (2022-12-17 04:07:58 GMT)
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... few possible developments ...
Peer comment(s):
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Yvonne Gallagher
: you disagree with AT's conjecture yet paraphrase it? High CL for guesswork
2 days 10 hrs
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"guesswork"?? - give ONE plausible scenario where "drop the rope of your struggle with (whatever)" could mean anything else than "quit fighting"? I'm the first to be very cautious about possible alternative meanings, but here I can't imagine any.
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer.
Comment: "Thank you. I like your paraphrase because it's shorter and to the point. That's exactly what I needed."
+1
3 mins
don't spend all of your life pursuing battles'fight for what really matters
7 Tips to Choose Your Battles and Fight for What Matters
https://personalexcellence.co › blog › choose-your-battles
Choose your battles wisely. After all, life isn't measured by how many times you stood up to fight. It's not winning battles that makes you happy, but it's.
https://personalexcellence.co › blog › choose-your-battles
Choose your battles wisely. After all, life isn't measured by how many times you stood up to fight. It's not winning battles that makes you happy, but it's.
Note from asker:
Thank you. You didn't answer one of my questions. :-) |
I am looking for a shorter phrase that I can use as a synonym. |
Maybe "give up fighting for trifles/irrelevancies"? |
Peer comment(s):
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philgoddard
: Yes, it must be from tug of war, though I've never heard of it and it's not easily understandable. Asker: you didn't say you wanted a shorter phrase.
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thanks
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Chris Says Bye
: It just says “give up”, everything else is conjecture. My feeling is the rope thing means you’re pulling something, not tug of war, but who knows?
3 hrs
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We don't really have sufficient context and asker only heard it so there is no document; we can only conjecture
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disagree |
Daryo
: By which twist of logic could you turn "accept reality - stop fighting against it" into "choose your fights wisely"? // Can't see any connections, these are two mutually independent concepts.
11 hrs
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Well the context is totally missing anyway (asker only heard it) so by what logic can you claim to know better?
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agree |
Yvonne Gallagher
: no disagree warranted here as conjecture is all that's possible with mangled English and no context
2 days 21 hrs
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I should have given a lower CL then....
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11 hrs
Refuse to participate
But what if we didn’t pull, pull, pull? What if we just dropped the rope? What if we chose not to battle?
An idiom.
But what if we didn’t pull, pull, pull? What if we just refuse to participate? What if we chose not to argue at all?
An idiom.
But what if we didn’t pull, pull, pull? What if we just refuse to participate? What if we chose not to argue at all?
Peer comment(s):
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Daryo
: In this case your suggestion would amount to "Refuse to participate in reality". Context?
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neutral |
Yvonne Gallagher
: 100% sure of this? It's not an idiom at all
2 days 10 hrs
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19 days
Refuse to participate
But what if we didn’t pull, pull, pull? What if we just dropped the rope? What if we chose not to battle?
An idiom.
But what if we didn’t pull, pull, pull? What if we just refuse to participate? What if we chose not to argue at all?
An idiom.
But what if we didn’t pull, pull, pull? What if we just refuse to participate? What if we chose not to argue at all?
Discussion
no idiom, no metaphor just mangeld English
Asking people here to give you a 100% accurate alternative expression is not realistic. We simply don't know the context of what you heard.