Glossary entry

English term or phrase:

caul of shame

English answer:

garment of shame

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Jun 3 01:03
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English term

caul of shame

English Art/Literary Psychology effects of shame
Dear colleagues,
I’m not sure about how to interpret the metaphor “caul of shame” in the passage below, written by a psychiatrist about the experience and the effects of shame.
I’ve seen that “caul” also means “amnion which encloses the foetus before birth, especially that part of it which sometimes shrouds a baby’s head at birth (traditionally considered to be good luck)”.
So I was wondering whether the author might have used this word to create a sort of “bitter” comparison between a “caul as a sign of good luck” and a caul that in this case shrouds the child with shame from infancy.
My doubt is: when you read the sentence, you also think of the original meaning of “caul” as a possible sign of good luck or do you think “caul” is used just in the sense of something that wraps the child with shame?
Thank you so much for your patience!

Here is the passage:


Acute shame can be understood as leading to the development of enduring shame-laden mental states Early experiences of repetitive shame lead to chronic shame that is dyed in the wool from which the fabric of an unsuspecting child’s mental life is spun, *** a caul of shame ***created so early that it has the subjective experience of a given.
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Discussion

haribert (asker) Jun 7:
Dear colleagues, thank you so much to all of you for your precious suggestions! I feel that the author has used "caul" to mean both a barrier since birth as Irin and Yvonne said, but also to hint at the "pervasive" character of shame, so pervasive that becomes "a second skin", something that wraps you... as the use of words such as fabric, yarn etc.. seem to suggest. That's why I'll choose Tomasso's answer, although I'll try to find a "thinner" garment, maybe something along the lines of "veil", as Yvonne and Liz said.
Thank you so much and have a great weekend!
haribert (asker) Jun 4:
Thank you, Tomasso, for the translation! Have a nice day!
Tomasso Jun 3:
Persian to English Chronic shame can be understood as a factor that leads to the development of stable psychological states associated with shame. Repeated early experiences of shame lead to chronic shame that is unconsciously woven into the fabric of the child's mental life.Farsi to English Comment by Elmira.
haribert (asker) Jun 3:
Dear Tomasso, thank you for this useful link! Actually, the passage is by the same author of my text and it helps understand his usage of this term. Thank you so much!
Tomasso Jun 3:
similar text New term to me....Shame wraps a mind in a caul of self-loathing, as if from birth onward, in the wake of interpersonal trauma. The withering of human potential that the shame spectrum of emotion provokes sometimes creates a paradoxical oasis of misery from which a suffering soul cannot seem to be coaxed. In this exploration, shame will become more visible through an understanding of its physiologic and somatic origins, relevant neurobiology, affect theory, role in attachment, and context in the organization of a multiple self-state model of mind. Entry points and pitfalls in the clinical approach to shame will also be explored. taken from https://www.cspponline.org/event-2274620 Citation of same...https://www.seinstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Prese...

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garment of shame

(using older terminology or Biblical) constant garment of shame, covering of shame, the garment of shame that can never be removed. The garment of shame has been there so long it is part of the person and never goes away. Just suggestions.
Note from asker:
Thank you so much, Tomasso, for your valuable contribution and the useful link in the Discussion1
Peer comment(s):

agree Sebastian Magoto
5 hrs
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agree Chantale Flentge
5 hrs
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agree Omri Ofek Luzon
8 hrs
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neutral Yvonne Gallagher : too thin to be described as a "garment" I think main emphasis shoud be on the fact it has been there since birth
2 days 6 hrs
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer. Comment: "Thank you so much, Tomasso, for your valuable help! I think the metaphor of something to wear goes in the right direction, because the author has used terms such as fabric, wool... And I agree with you: it's something that has become almost a "second skin", you can't take it off... A big thanks also to all other colleagues, as I said in the Discussion.. Have a nice weekend!"
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Paralysis of toxic shame

The deep shame that some people move forward with from childhood prevents them from seeing their person beyond it and from allowing others in. The shame in itself, therefore, forms a barrier between them and the outer world. The impact is stagnation in personal growth until this covering is seen and lifted.
The 'caul' being the barrier acts as a form of paralysis to the full blossoming and growth of the individual.

These are my thoughts on the matter.
Note from asker:
Thank you very much, Irin, for your interesting contribution!
Peer comment(s):

agree Yvonne Gallagher : yes, this is basically what it means. A barrier since birth, a veil that hasn't lifted at all so impeding development
1 day 22 hrs
neutral liz askew : I prefer "veil of shame", no mention of "toxic".
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شرم مزمن

شرم مزمن را می‌توان به عنوان عاملی که به توسعه حالات روانی پایدار همراه با شرم منجر می‌شود، درک کرد. تجربیات اولیه شرم تکراری منجر به شرم مزمنی می‌شود که در تار و پود زندگی روانی کودک ناآگاه تنیده شده است
Note from asker:
I'm sorry, but I don't understand your language...
Peer comment(s):

disagree Yvonne Gallagher : MONOlingual English
1 day 21 hrs
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