Glossary entry

English term or phrase:

person with an idealised view of e.g. their children

English answer:

doting

Added to glossary by Tony M
Jun 4, 2006 17:03
18 yrs ago
English term

idealistic

Non-PRO English Other Linguistics
I´m not sure how to define a parent who always thinks his son/daughter is tops, that he´s always right, etc. He´s being totally irreal.

Discussion

David Russi Jun 4, 2006:
Obnoxious?

Responses

+6
15 mins
Selected

doting

Is the word I've always been familiar with to mean exactly this.

Here's a clip from OED:

"dote
I v.i.
...
3 Be infatuated; have or show excessive affection. (Foll. by on, upon)"
Peer comment(s):

agree Peter Shortall : Ah, yes - very apt!
1 min
Thanks, Peter! You see, I'm not quite in my 'dotage' yet! ;-)
agree Nesrin : That's actually the word I was looking for when I suggested "adulating"!
3 mins
Thanks, Nesrin! I hate it when that happens: you know the word, it's on the tip fo your tongue, but somehow, doesn't quite come...
agree NancyLynn : quite
32 mins
Thanks, Nancy!
agree LJC (X)
35 mins
Thanks, Lesley!
agree Leny Vargas
3 hrs
Thanks, Lenybee!
agree Alison Jenner
14 hrs
Thanks, Alison!
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+2
2 mins
English term (edited): parent who always thinks his son/daughter is tops

arrogant, conceited, living in a dream world

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Peer comment(s):

agree Peter Shortall : Blinded by filial affection, complacent, the child can do no wrong in their eyes... doesn't sound like my parents at all!
5 mins
agree Alfa Trans (X)
1 hr
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+1
6 mins

adulating?

I'm not sure there's a word specifically to describe that sort of parent, but "adulating" might work.

adulate:

To praise or admire excessively; fawn on.
To compliment excessively and ingratiatingly: blandish, butter up, flatter, honey, slaver. Informal soft-soap, sweet-talk. See praise/blame.

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Note added at 10 mins (2006-06-04 17:13:48 GMT)
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He was raised to be adulated. His parents risked their house to buy Jerry Lee an upright pian o when he was 10. His mother, revelling in his sight, ...
www.talentondisplay.com/TakeNote/099.html

. the program chronicles the celebratory excesses of 15-year-old girls (and boys) who persuade their parents to shower them with adulation and automobiles ...
www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2006/05/19/puttin_on_the_ditz/ind...
Peer comment(s):

agree Asghar Bhatti
1 hr
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2 hrs

naive, blind to reality, blind to his child's faults or weakness (in this context AND doting

Since you said the parent is totally unreal, I think naive or blind to reality might work.
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