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Glossary entry

English term or phrase:

hound someone vs. pick on someone vs. be on someone's back

English answer:

some nuances of meaning

Added to glossary by Oliver Simões
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English term

hound someone vs. pick on someone vs. be on someone's back

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I'd like to know if these idioms are synonymous. If not, what's the difference in meaning?

I don't have any specific context, other than the definitions I found in the Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

hound someone: https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/hound someone
pick on someone: https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/pick on someone
be on someone's back: https://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/be on someone's back
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Jan 16, 2025 19:09: Oliver Simões changed "Edited KOG entry" from "<a href="/profile/2407412">Oliver Simões's</a> old entry - "hound someone vs. pick on someone vs. be on someone\'s back"" to ""some nuances of meaning""

Discussion

Tony M Aug 9, 2021:
@ Asker 'to pick on someone' has a connotation of being more occasional, less systematic — it could even just be once off.
'to hound someone' is to be constantly, regularly chasing someone for something; as Tomasso says, it might even be for a legitimate reason.
'to be on someone's back' is to frequently harass someone, to pick up every little thing they may do wrong (or maybe even not) — to always blame them if something is wrong; it suggests never leaving them alone.

I'd say the last 2 are very close synonyms; it is the first one that may have a greater nuance of meaning.
Tomasso Aug 9, 2021:
to constantly chase or bother someone because you want to get something from them. Examples of Hound in a sentence. 1. The bill collector continued to hound Javi by constantly calling him about his debt.

pick on someone) to keep treating someone badly or unfairly, especially by criticizing them.

to annoy someone by criticizing them and putting a lot of pressure on them. The crowd aren't forgiving, and as soon as you make a mistake they are on your back

from google internet, empahasis is just a little different, one may have a reason to hound someone, they should be doing something,

picking on somebody is not justified, is sign of a bully, an abuse, and authoritarian, example at times of Sadism

be on some ones back, to put pressure on a person, maybe by calling attention to them when they do not want it.

I do not know the equivalent in Portuguese.

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some nuances of meaning

I agree with previous responses in Dbox to a great extent. However, while these can have similar, or sometimes synonymous meanings, they will not necessarily mean the same in all contexts where one term might fit better as there are nuances of meaning possible too.

pick on, as the others have said can be a one off or be regular, though if the latter we usually use always or constantly

He was looking for someone to blame/a scapecoat so picked on me = passing the buck
The bigger boys constantly pick on him in the schoolyard= bully
I don't know why she dislikes me so much but she's constantly picking on me for the least thing =fault-finding

My mother is always on my back about cleaning my room = keeps nagging
His boss is always on his back about something or other =fault-finding , being hypercritical

He kept hounding me to go/do something until I eventually agreed =wear someone down by being at them constantly

The child just kept hounding his mother (=pester) to buy sweets until she relented

The debt collecter was certainly persistant and kept hounding me until I paid

The police hounded the suspect (pursued like a hound dog) until he was caught again


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glad to have helped
Peer comment(s):

agree AllegroTrans : Yes, context in which any of these expressions is used is crucial, a dictionary of idioms is only a basic guide
3 mins
Indeed. Thanks:-)
agree Tony M
24 mins
Thanks Tony:-)
agree James A. Walsh
1 hr
Many thanks:-)
agree Tina Vonhof (X) : Good examples of nuances.
2 hrs
Many thanks:-) As an EFL teacher I had to come up with lots of examples, especially with advanced learners!
agree Tomasso : yes, nagging is a good example,
7 hrs
Thanks:-)
agree Sarah Bessioud
7 hrs
Thanks:-)
agree Britta Norris : Great examples! :)
2 days 9 hrs
Many thanks:-)
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer. Comment: "Thank you, Yvonne, for the explanation and examples. Very helpful. Thank you also to the other colleagues for their comments."