Glossary entry

English term or phrase:

a word to describe doing something opposite just for the sake of it

English answer:

contrary / perverse / bloody-minded

Added to glossary by jerrie

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contrary

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Mary Mary quite contrary...

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bloody-minded
disobediant

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Note added at 2002-09-13 16:43:32 (GMT)
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contrary: opposite, perverse (adj)
an extreme opposite (noun)
to oppose / contradict / annoy (verb)

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Peer comment(s):

agree Mary Worby : Don't know what your saying, mind! Bloody-minded and cussed are much more my style :-)
2 mins
Do people sing it to you often?!! :-) Thanks
agree Jack Doughty : "disobedient" is correct spelling.
2 mins
Yes, it is. Thank you.
agree writeaway : being bloody-minded was what I had planned to say
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agree Liv Bliss (X) : "bloody-minded" is the second word that came to mind. The first was "Tony" - my brother ;-).
25 mins
Ummm, my daughter's not home from school yet, but I'm sure there will be a few practical demonstrations...Thanks
agree Marion Burns : My 6-year-old immediately comes to mind.
31 mins
Just wait...14 is an excellent age for it..
agree Oso (X) : ¶:^)
1 hr
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agree LJC (X)
1 hr
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agree RHELLER : and contrariness
2 hrs
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agree John Kinory (X) : 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19 - you name it (and take it from me).
2 hrs
So where is the light at the end of the tunnel ? : - )
agree airmailrpl
5 hrs
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disagree Ildiko Santana : Sorry, Jerrie, do break your winning streak here, but this only expresses disagreement, w/out the 'hidden agenda' that the asker mentions..
13 hrs
contrary (perverse) and bloody-mindedness both convey spite but not hate
agree Sheila Hardie : exactly what I was thinking:-)
1 day 3 hrs
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agree Kanta Rawat (X)
2 days 14 hrs
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agree Dan_Brennan
4 days
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argumentativeness

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argumentative :

1. belligerent, combative, contetious, contrary, disputatious, litigious, opinionated, quarrelsome
2. contentious, controversial, disputed, polemic


ANTONYMS:
accomodating, amenable, complaisant, compliant, conciliatory, easy-going, obliging
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6 mins

contrary

The American Heritage Dictionary defines "contrary" as follows:

"Given to recalcitrant behavior; willful or perverse."


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Peer comment(s):

agree Sheila Hardie
1 day 3 hrs
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8 mins

contrary

a definition from Merriam Webster


mischievous

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4 : temperamentally unwilling to accept control or advice
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32 mins

Argument's sake

Is it too easy?
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55 mins

spiteful

how about spiteful? (doing something out of spite)

Or perverse?

(having kids sure makes these words spring to mind!)
Peer comment(s):

agree Irene Chernenko : Perverse, I like it.
38 mins
disagree Ildiko Santana : See the asker's own words: "spiteful but not with hate" ..
12 hrs
disagree John Kinory (X) : As Ildiko
16 hrs
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stubborn, obstinate, wilfull, ornery

"Of persons or animals: Pertinacious or dogged in refusing obedience or compliance; unyielding, inflexible, obstinate: chiefly in bad sense, unreasonably obstinate." --O.E.D.

None of these words has any connotation of "hateful" in current usage.

All are frequently used with respect to small children, teenagers, mules ("stubborn as a mule") or Cats.

Also, with various shases of meaning between them :

bullheaded, headstrong, intractable, mulish, pigheaded, refractory, stiff-necked, willful, unyielding,
contumacious, insubordinate, rebellious; cantankerous.


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Make that second reference : http://m-w.com/thesaurus

Of all of those synonyms I suggested above, only \"insubordinate\" really has the sense of doing something *opposite* of what one is told.

Though this word --which is most commonly used in the military to denote someone who refuses to obey orders (not necessarily actually *does* something antithetical to what he is ordered to do) doesn\'t carry the implication of \"spitefulness,\" much less \"hatefulness,\" just \"rebellion.\"

I\'m not sure that there *is* an English word which, by itself, fulfills all your needs : \"Doing the opposite of what one is told to do out of spite (but not out of hatefulness), just \'for the hell of it\'.\"
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neutral tongue tied : these don't convey doing the 'opposite' but 'not doing as told'
2 days 21 hrs
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2 hrs

perverse

The usual BE term. Someone being perverse = doing the opposite of what they would otherwise do, simply out of obstinacy and/or in order to annoy and be difficult, not because they really want to or because it might be beneficial to them.
Peer comment(s):

agree Gayle Wallimann
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agree Margaret Lagoyianni
12 hrs
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-2
5 hrs

on purpose, purposefully

Just a guess.
Peer comment(s):

disagree John Kinory (X) : Totally irrelevant.
55 mins
disagree Ildiko Santana : agree with JK
8 hrs
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contradictory

Can be verbal or physcial.
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13 hrs

DEFIANCE, obstinacy, stubbornness, resistance, sulking..

defiance [noun] would be my first guess, others: sulking, obstinacy, stubbornness, resistance...

Basically, when I say NO! just because I'm supposed to say yes but I don't want to obey..

*defiance* : Defiance is negative dependency, a simple mirroring of the conformity of conversion. It is a major part of the cycle of guilt of high authority. As recognition is never enough satisfaction for conformity, there is endurance leading to boredom. The more adequate then fantasy and with provocation, act out their defiant fantasies, then have a secret overcoming of the authority, leading to confession. There is then punishment, which is endured, followed by guilty conformity. The otherness of defiance is planning.

verb: to be defiant, to sulk, to be sulky..
Peer comment(s):

neutral jerrie : I would not say that any of your suggestions suggest 'spite but not hate'. Both contrary (perverse) and bloody-minded do!
2 hrs
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pigheadedness

sounds a bit derog. though
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23 hrs

counter-suggestibility

'contrary' I also agree with, in a literary sense
perhaps however the cognitive psych is required
Peer comment(s):

agree R.J.Chadwick (X)
5 days
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1 day 5 hrs

do something in defiance of

"spiteful but not with hate" is unlikely and misleading

spiteful=showing malicious ill will and a desire to hurt; motivated by spite
hateful=characterized by malice if you want a less used word try "obstreperous(ly)" Maria obstreperously did the contrary.

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2 days 1 hr

athwart

Athwart means "So as to thwart, obstruct, or oppose; perversely."



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English is a truly wonderful language, it seems to have a word for everything!
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4 days

contrariness

if you want the noun that best fits the type of behaviour you describe then contrariness is the one.
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