Apr 3, 2007 22:02
17 yrs ago
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English term

Can we call each other you?

Non-PRO English to German Other Idioms / Maxims / Sayings Relationship
I heard that in German etiquette, it is improper to call someone "Du" until you ask. I don't know the phrase. I'm sure it starts with "Koennen wir..." but I don't know what the rest of it would be.

Proposed translations

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können wir uns duzen?

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Peer comment(s):

agree Steffen Walter : Although the English entered by asker obviously doesn't make any sense...
1 min
"the German familiar you" as the source term entry?
agree Nicole Schnell
1 min
agree Irene Schlotter, Dipl.-Übers. : I agree with Steffen - sounds almost like the speaker might linguistically be 'on the woodway' ;-)
8 mins
agree Cilian O'Tuama : "you can say 'you' to me" - angeblich Kohl zu Thatcher
17 mins
agree Klaus Herrmann : Yes, "können wir/sollen wir" is a nice way to avoid the "Sie/Ihnen" problem. @Cilian: Kohl and Thatcher have a beer, Kohl orders a Pils and Thatcher orders a stout. Thatcher raises her glass: "At your health". Kohl replies: "At your Dunkelth".
50 mins
To your Dunkelth?
agree fairfaxco@gmail : Agree, and Julia has offered a good example for a more formal situation...
5 hrs
agree Savita Bhalla : defintely agree :)
6 hrs
agree Annette Scheulen
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer. Comment: "Thanks for the help! This is exactly what I was looking for"
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Darf ich Ihnen das Du anbieten?

There is no general rule of who to address to with "du" or with "Sie".
Normally you only offer the "Du" if you are either older than the other person or in a higher position (job-wise). If in doubt, just watch how people around you are dealing that problem.
The translation Kim proposed is of course right - my translation might be appropriate in a rather formal situation (e.g. job).
Peer comment(s):

agree Wilhelm Deutsch : I agree a 100% with Julia. Darf ich Ihnen das Du anbieten? It is in my humble opinion , both formal and very polite. Thanks, Wm D.
58 mins
agree Erik Freitag : Yes, this is it.
8 hrs
agree Sandra SAYN (X)
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agree silvia glatzhofer : oder auch: ... das Duwort....
9 hrs
agree Annette Scheulen
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